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Facing an impossible decision?Therapy for Couples on the Brink of Divorce
You’ve talked. Fought. Avoided. Tried everything you can think of—even thought about leaving. And still, nothing feels any easier.
You’re living in limbo, and it’s exhausting.
Right now, you may be:
Worrying about your kids, your future, or how this will affect your family
Feeling guilt about leaving, and fear about staying
Wondering if you’re selfish—or just afraid of making the wrong decision
Tired of the same conversations that go nowhere
Desperate for a path forward, but overwhelmed by every option
You don’t want to break up your family, but you’re on the brink of separating or getting a divorce—and you’re not sure what to do next.
Discernment counseling can help.
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Discernment Counseling Can Help If…
One or both of you is on the fence about staying in the relationship.
If you’re skeptical that traditional couples counseling is a good fit.
One of you is pushing to make it work and the other is considering divorce.
You Don’t Need Pressure. You Need Perspective.Expert Therapy for Couples Considering Divorce
Discernment counseling is a short-term, structured process (up to five sessions) created specifically for couples at a crossroads. It’s not couples therapy, and it’s not about telling you what to do with your relationshp. It’s about helping you decide.
In just a few sessions, we’ll help you:
Stop second-guessing yourself and make a decision you can stand behind
Get relief from the nonstop worry, guilt, and pressure you’ve been carrying
Talk without everything turning tense or explosive
Say what’s really on your mind—with hands-on support to keep the conversation productive
Walk away with a clear plan for what’s next—whether that means working on the relationship or preparing to separate
It may not be an easy decision, but you’ll feel sure it’s the right one—for you, your family, and your future.
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Who Is Discernment Counseling For?Discernment Counseling is short-term, strategic therapy for couples who are genuinely unsure whether to stay together or separate. It’s not for:
Couples who have already decided to divorce
Couples who are both ready to begin traditional relationship-repair therapy
It is for couples stuck in the painful in-between—trying to decide whether to rebuild the relationship or end it.
With Discernment Counseling, you can:
Break out of the exhausting loop of “what ifs”
Understand your own role in the relationship dynamic—without blame or shame
Explore your options with steady, expert guidance
Walk away with a clear decision and a concrete path forward
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Meet Our Discernment SpecialistValery Krieg | LCSW
Valery specializes in helping couples find clarity when they’re unsure whether to stay, separate, or rebuild. She guides you through the hardest relationship crossroads with warmth, honesty, and zero judgment—her role is to help you get clear, not push you in any direction.
A Clear Path Forward
Together or ApartWhen your relationship feels like it’s hanging in the balance, the hardest part is not knowing what to do next.
Most couples don’t realize that traditional couples therapy isn’t built for people who are seriously considering separation. It works best when both people are fully committed to staying together and repairing the relationship.
If you’re considering separating, Discernment Counseling is the right place to start.
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Ready to Take the Next Step?Schedule your free 30-minute consultation to explore if discernment counseling is right for you.
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FAQs-
Not quite. Traditional couples therapy assumes both partners want to improve the relationship. Discernment counseling is for couples who aren’t sure. It’s a short-term, decision-focused process that helps you figure out if couples therapy is the right next step—before you jump into the hard work of fixing the relationship.
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Those conversations probably felt heated, confusing, or unresolved. Discernment Counseling gives you a short-term, structured space to sort through the chaos and finally understand whether to work on the relationship, separate, or keep talking. No pressure—just room to decide.
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If one of you is seriously considering divorce—but isn’t 100% sure—discernment counseling can help. This short-term process is designed for couples where one partner is leaning out and the other wants to stay. It’s not about changing someone’s mind—it’s about slowing down, getting honest, and deciding whether to work on the relationship or move toward separation with intention and respect.
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We offer Discernment Counseling exclusively through trained, expert discernment counselors—available online to couples anywhere in Colorado. Whether you’re in Evergreen or elsewhere in the state, you can access specialized, structured support without the stress of coordinating travel.
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